Monday, April 22, 2013

Random things... :)

Juhee sharing her bicycle with Sungjae.
Today, I had to go pick up Sungjae a bit earlier than usual because he had a fever. He usually has seconds for lunch, but today he didn't finish his first serving. He's usually very active a~ll the time, but he stopped being so active a little bit before lunch time. After nap time, they checked his temperature and it was at 38.8C, so they called me to come pick him up. He was lying on his little cot when I came into this room. He was very happy to see me and wanted me to hold him. My poor baby!!! :(

Usually he's off running around and climbing up things as soon as I put his shoes on him to go home, but today, he just stayed in my arms. At dinner time, Juhee very thoughtfully said that I could sit next to Sungjae today as he's sick. I was worried that she would kick up a fuss if I suggested it, so I'm glad she said it first! She's a good girl, a caring and loving big sister. :) I only gave Sungjae a little bit for dinner and he thankfully finished all of it before climbing into my arms again. I gave him to daddy for a bit while I washed the dishes and he fell sound asleep in daddy's arms. But of course, he woke up looking for me as soon as I went to the bathroom... :/ While Peter and I were upstairs getting Sungjae ready for bed, Juhee was downstairs on her own. When we left her, she was drawing. When Peter went back downstairs, she was flossing! She was getting herself ready for bed too without us having said anything. She's becoming such a big girl!

Juhee and Sungjae brushing each other's teeth! =D
Sungjae said he wanted to brush his teeth ("이빨닦어!") before going to bed and wanted to shower too, but we said yes to brushing teeth and no to shower. He barely had the energy to stand and we didn't want him to get really cold (it's cold in our bathroom, especially if we don't run the bath). Thankfully, he was satisfied with just brushing teeth. :) By 8pm, both kids were fast asleep, an hour to hour and a half earlier than usual.

I pray that Sungjae's fever will go down tonight... And I thank God that Juhee's is such an understanding, thoughtful, caring big sister... :) At least when her little brother is sick. ;)


Sungjae doesn't like his veggies. The other day, Sungjae and I were having leftover curry and Peter and Juhee were having leftover (Costco!!!) pizza for dinner. I was surprised that Sungjae was eating his carrots, and not only was he eating them, he was gathering all of them up on his spoon and eating them first. He was also saying that horses like carrots and making horse neighing sounds. He calls horses "horsie" or "ee-hing", so I said, "성제가 이힝~처럼 당근 잘 먹네~" ("You eat carrots well, just like a horse!") to which Juhee said, "누나는~ 사람처럼 피자 잘 먹어." ("Big sister eats pizza well, just like a human being.") =D

Juhee and the boys following the exercises on the kids' show.
An English-speaking Japanese friend recently asked us to take care of her two boys. We were very happy to do so as they're one of our closest friends here. She came back from work to pick up her boys and I offered her some tea. She sipped the tea, sighed, and said, "I feel like I can relax now. But not because of the tea, or the house, I think because I'm with Jenny-san." I think my heart melted. Love her to bits. :)

One of many, many meetings I've had
with the other moms of Juhee's class.
Last week, I spent about 6 hours with other moms from Juhee's school. 2 years ago, I wouldn't have been completely lost and wiped out. Now, I can follow most things and am tired, but not wiped out. God is good. :)

Also last week, I was reminded that it's OK to not know everything. But more importantly, God chose me to be the person I am, doing what I'm doing, and living where I'm living, because according to His plan, I'm the best one for the job that He's given me. By "know"ing here, I mean things like biblical knowledge, theology, even things like Japanese culture, Christian history, etc as I sometimes feel like I'm not very well equipped to be here. But I was
One of my best friends here.
She thinks that us becoming friends was "destiny".
reminded that me doubting the "appropriateness" (? for lack of a better word), is like doubting God and His Sovereignty. I hadn't thought of it that way before.

The missionary's wife who spoke about this to me also said (without ever having met Peter) that Peter and I are very different, and that I should stop trying to understand him. =D It made me think about how we are similar in some ways, but very very different in so many other ways too. And although many say that "opposites attract", I think it was the similarities that we have that attracted us to one another in the beginning. We share many basic fundamental values. But yes, we are very different too. I think most couples could
probably say this about themselves...

Bought more than 20 English kids' books
at an International Festival, all for just $10!!!
I love buying books. I shouldn't because we'll be moving so often and books are heavy, but I love buying books, having lots of books at home, and being able to read a variety of books to our kids. I love that they have lots of books that they can just browse through. Buying books is SOOO much more fun than buying shoes, handbags, clothes... Blech! (Shhh.. don't tell my sister! ;P)


She refused to wear pants even to an athletic center.
She loves her skirts and dresses! :)
A good friend of ours back home has been the main provider of Juhee's wardrobe since she was about 2 years old. When we moved to Japan, I brought about two years' worth of clothes for Juhee, most from this one friend. Now, my friend sends clothes with people who come visit us from the San Jose area. When I changed out Juhee's wardrobe about a month ago to her Spring / Summer clothes, I noticed that she had almost everything she needed, but she didn't have many skirts. She had dresses sent to her from my sister and Juhee's grandmas, but hardly any skirts that she could wear to school. Juhee LOVES skirts and dresses. She does NOT like wearing shorts / pants. I mentioned this to my teammate one evening as we were chatting. The following week, two brothers from our home church came to visit and one of them brought clothes from my friend - including - skirts!!! When I told my teammate, she was amazed at God's provision. So were we!!! :) God is good.

Hmm.. Where did the "cookie jar" go?
Who took the cookie from the cookie jar? ;)
The value of the yen is dropping!!! I can't tell you how much this means to us. Our budget was created based on a $1=110円 exchange rate. For the past two years, the annual average has been around $1=78円. PLUS our monthly support has decreased significantly over the past 15 months. So having the exchange rate at almost $1=100円 is absolutely amazing!!! Thank You, God!!!

The mom of the girl in Juhee's class who is not very nice to her is always super nice to me. At the last meeting we had at the preschool, all of the moms were standing around in the classroom, looking for a seat. Most moms sat in the seat in front of them (as I did - being the non-shy foreigner, I was the first to sit), but the mom of the not-so-nice girl came over from the other side of the classroom saying "I'm going to sit next to Juhee's mommy" and came and sat next to me. She sat next to me when some of the moms went out to lunch together too. I'm glad she likes me so much. :) Hopefully I'll be able to have more in-depth conversations with her someday.

God sent us so many people to help us for our move!
It was truly an amazing experience.
I finally have a second floor balcony to hang my laundry on, just like almost everyone else! Yay! :) We also finally have an automatic bath filling mechanism. It's really cool! I love it! We finally have regulated water temperature so no one can accidentally burn themselves with water from the hot water tap like at our old house. We also have a nice, strong shower instead of a trickle. The shower in our last house always reminded me of the showers I took during my short-term missions trip in Uganda in 2004. It was a trickle there too. But at least it wasn't cold!!!

Can't get away from centipedes. They're everywhere here. But so glad the white powder repellant works! Two centipedes so far at the new house, but thankfully, they were both outside and dead!!! (Hope you won't be too disappointed that there's no picture to go with this tidbit.)

And on that happy note... :)

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